In English we have the towel, in French they use a sponge.
Why do I need to know jeter l’éponge?
Because you're likely to hear it a lot in moments of defeat.
What does it mean?
Literally “to throw the sponge”, jeter l’éponge - pronounced shetay lep-onj - is the French equivalent of the English expression “to throw in the towel”.
Both expressions mean to give up and admit defeat, and they can be traced back to the same place, too. In boxing, a trainer will throw a towel into the ring to signal that his fighter can’t continue. Along with the towel, a sponge is another object trainers use to clean a boxer’s face between rounds, and can also be used to bring a fight to an end.
Just like the English expression, jeter l’éponge has taken on a wider meaning and is used in everyday situations, not just when talking about athletes. If anything, it's even more commonly used in French.
The verb jeter - to throw - is a standard 'er' verb and is conjugated in the regular way when using this phrase.
Use it like this
Royaume Uni: l'ancien premier ministre Boris Johnson jette l'éponge dans la course à la succession de Liz Truss - UK: Former prime minister Boris Johnson throws in the towel in the race to succeed Liz Truss
Les sondages ne lui sont pas favorables mais il n’est pas prêt de jeter l’éponge – The polls don’t look good for him, but he’s not ready to throw in the towel
Le tennisman a jeté l’éponge après le premier set en raison d’une blessure – The tennis player admitted defeat after the first set due to injury
Même si tu n’as pas les meilleures notes, il ne faut pas jeter l’éponge – Even if you don’t have the best grades, you shouldn’t give up
If you have children in France you're likely to already be familiar with the word éponge - in France, SpongeBob SquarePants is known as Bob l'éponge (Bob the sponge).
